Why is it men want that old proverb of an Angel in the Kitchen and a Devil in the Bedroom? Why can’t they be happy with just a Devil in the bedroom?
With all my dating and experiences with the opposite sex I still don’t know why men feel that they have to have it all.
Take for instance, this guy I’m seeing right now; we’ll call him Doctor Feel Good; doesn’t want a girlfriend; has made that perfectly clear; and I’m totally fine with this. Seriously, I am. I’m not one of those girls who says I’m ok with just sex then turns around and gets upset if he’s not calling or is constantly thinking about what he’s doing or who he’s with. I know these girls; it’s not me.
I would have stopped ages ago; as he was supposed to be a summer fling; well, the fling got flung, and I’m still sleeping with him.
We’ve disscused our situation and he told me; he just doesn’t want a girlfriend; he has no time for one with his work, it’s just not possible for him.
For some reason I think I’ve dated this guy a million times over and told him I’m looking for more; he agrees that I deserve more; but until I find it we can keep doing what we are doing. This works.
I’ve told him that I’ve seen other people and been dating other people; nothing serious has come of that yet; hence why I’m still sleeping with him; but out of no where I get a text from Doctor Feel Good stating the fact that he feels bad that I’m depending on him for sex, with his busy schedule he’s not always available for me when I want him.
Mmm, What??? That was my actual response! He said to forget about it; but this goes back to my point; Doctor Feel Good, even though he knows I’ve seen other guys, dated other guys, somewhere in his head believes that I’ve only been sleeping with him over these past 9 months; wow, just counted that out, that’s how much I care…
In his head; somehow he’s gotten in the Angel in the Kitchen, Devil in the bedroom thought process into his head.
Is this something that they promote in guys’ magazines or is this their version of fairy tales? Instead of the stories we hear from our mothers of Price Charming, who one day will come and whisk us away to an exciting life and love and adore us until the day we die.
They go out fishing with their dad’s at a young age and their dad’s tell them that their ideal woman when they grow up will be the perfect, respectable, elegant woman that they will proud to wear on their arms; but when they get them home; behind closed doors, she’ll be this wild, adventurous, energetic Amazon woman that will do things to him that dare not be repeated.
It’s just interesting as to where and when they get this kind of thinking; don’t you think?
Until the next go round…
